All I can say about Zaire is that it is a semi-anonymous blog about the thoughts swirling around in my head. Although I may have a picture up I would like to keep this blog separate from my real life. I had another blog by the same name on WordPress but it was compromised by undesirables. Anyways… I always kept journals as a child/young teen but for whatever reason I stop. Now that I’m twenty I gathered it would do me good to keep a record of my thoughts and experiences throughout life. The best way for me to do this is by keeping an online journal because a. my handwriting sucks b. I’m always on my laptop and c. I like the idea of strangers reading about my life.
I will try my best to post an entry everyday, even if it is just an interesting video on http://www.youtube.com.
I decided to name my blog Zaire because I have always loved that name. For those of you who don’t know Zaire is the former name of the Democratic Republic of the Congo. It is a very unique and beautiful name and it fits!
That’s about it for now…enjoy.
Zaire Y
Zaire 
i saw your nasty comments about me and my husband on abagond’s site.
You do not know me or my family so i would appreciate it if you keep your stupid remarks about people you don’t know to yourself. You never met me or my family so don’t speak for us, that’s Ad Hominem remember?
I never attacked you or said anything nasty to you so donot direct your irrational hatred towards me.
I speak my mind it doesn’t matter who i’m married to, and i have the right to do that.
Maybe you should get a life and stay out of my business, seems like you are jealous that i am actually married and you aren’t why else would you be so concerned and hateful?
I asked to have my comments deleted from that site because i got sick of putting up with all of the negative ad hominem comments thrown at me and i decided i should not have any part of the site.
I don’t know what your personal problem is with me but i don’t know you and you never met me so discontinue your slander of me and my family.
I didnt say anything negative. It is kind of weird that you have a white husband and say the stuff you say. Its not ad hom its the way I feel. I didnt say you were a bad person, nor do I think ill of you. I just think its odd, given your circumstances.
And no, Im not jealous of your marriage. You have the right to love whoever you want, and I am happy for you. But please do not mistake my curiosity for jealousy, hatred, or anything of that nature.
Like I said, I dont know you or your family personally and I dont think badly of you. Have a nice day.
i think its weird that you think i’m weird.
You aren’t on the blog harassing Natasha W for making comments about white people and racism and she has a white boyfriend.
Why didn’t you call her weird and ask heabout her relationship?
You decided to make comments about me though obviously you have a problem with me.
Racism and racist whites exist no matter who i’m married to and i will talk about them.
I agree on the latter. White racism in the modern era needs to be exposed. However, you must understand the way you come off at times makes it seem as though you believe whites are born uniquely evil, more so than POC. If this was not your intent with regards to your comments at Abagonds, I relay my sincerest apologies. I dont wish to pin you with a belief that you do not harbor. As for Natasha W, and the rest I dont get that impression from them.
I do not have a problem with you Erzulieredeyes. I like a lot of your commentary. And you dont strike me as a malicious person. However, at times you come off as “white bashing” and pinning whites as being inherently evil. If this was not your intend, again, my apologies for misconstruing your statements.
All the Best
I don’t care what you get from my comments.
I said my life is none of your business and you don’t know me you have no right to go around talking about me and my family like i’m your relative. YOU are weird.
Who talks about people they don’t know? THAT is weird.
I’m sure if i did that to you and your buddies you would have a fit but somehow its ok for you to do that to me?
I bash anybody that bashes me and i bash white trash racists all the time.
Which is why i am done with that ignorant nasty Abagond that had nerve to talk about his commenting policy yet he allowed anyone to attack me personally and didn’t ban them.
You have alot of nerve asking about me when your buddy Natasha has a white boyfriend and she makes comments about whites all the time. Ask her what she thinks and why.
My life is none of your business, i don’t know you,
don’t talk about me as if you know me.
Try getting a husband for yourself and mind your own business.
Honestly, I don’t care one bit about your life. As far as I’m concerned you are one anonymous person on the internet. You are the one that made it known you had a husband, this is not information I went digging for. You posted for all to see. I pointed out one thing about your “personal life”(a thing YOU made public) now you are trying to paint this false picture that I am cyber stalking you. Please.
I wouldn’t have a fit, when I put information on the internet I expect people to find it, and possibly comment on it. That’s how the internet works. And I’m aware of that.
I already told you why Natasha W is different. PS I didn’t ask anything about you. Frankly, I don’t care enough to do so. Like I said you are a woman that posts on a blog I happen to visit. Nothing more nothing less. If you don’t want people to ponder about your posts then don’t post. Simple. But don’t post comments and be annoyed when people call your views into question.
Again, I don’t care that you are married. Most adults are, big deal, I’m happy for you.
That’s good that you don’t care, or so you say, i see nothing but black women getting angry at anyone that actually has a relationship because they don’t. YOU singled me out after all.
And then somehow you and your buddies are right but anybody that you don’t favor or anyone that thinks different from you is wrong. You’re all self-righteous hypocrites.
You consider Natasha “different” because you like her and you wanted to single me out and judge me to make yourself and your buddies feel better. Very childish and ignorant.
“Oh it’s ok for me to talk about whites because i’m special but everybody else that does is extreme or bashing” LOL As long as its you or you buddies its ok but anyone else is wrong.
You can sit around like people like abagond and complain about whites all damn day, its not going to change or make racism go away, it doesn’t help anything.
And that fool said he banned me, LOL I told him to remove me from his site because i got sick of him and then he wrote that he banned me to make himself look good, he’s a clown. The “this is what white people do and how they should act” and the
“I’m right all the time and anyone that disagrees is a troll” attitude gets old really quick.
Hi, am I in this? I guess so, since my name was mentioned 🙂
I’ve had people ask me that same question before: how could you be with a white guy and denounce white racism/supremacy? Well, they are not exactly the same. When I speak out against white racism and white supremacy, I am not going against white people. I have no problem with white people, in general, and I love my SO and his family, specifically. But I don’t like racism, from anyone.
The same things I say online are the same things I discuss with him in real life, so it’s not like I’m leading a “double life” of sorts. He even knows some of the blogs I visit and reads some of my comments. He doesn’t take it personally because he knows I’m not talking about him, but a system. That’s the difference. It’s not in the least bit contradictory or hypocritical, if you ponder it. So yes, Erzulie, I’m coming from the same place you are.
Go dissect other people’s lives on that blog, again I don’t see you on there asking about their personal life you are talking about the topics at hand with them.
Glad you’re happy for me! Have a good one!
I agree on the latter. White racism in the modern era needs to be exposed. However, you must understand the way you come off at times makes it seem as though you believe whites are born uniquely evil, more so than POC. If this was not your intent with regards to your comments at Abagonds, I relay my sincerest apologies. I dont wish to pin you with a belief that you do not harbor. As for Natasha W, and the rest I dont get that impression from them.
+1
I see that you and the other people can say whatever you want but when i said something i was wrong. LOL If you are self-righteous and you think you’re right all the time that’s good for you.
That’s why i got tired of abagond and his self-righteous “i think i’m right all the time” attiutude, and told his ignorant behind to remove me from his blog.
My point was, don’t single me out when the people on that site talk about whites all the time when they are with a white person in a relationship.
Natasha made comments about black men saying she does not fully support black men as a whole, and that black women should ignore them and not have kids with them and then they won’t exist.
Now why didn’t you label her extreme and racist? OH that’s right because as long as its you or someone else that you like saying something you are correct, but if its me or anyone different then we are wrong or something is wrong with us.
Self-righteous and you all think your word is more important than others. Cute.
And then you and the others are on there talking about other people’s relationships when it comes to color and race.
Like you said, who cares?
But you all sure do spend alot of time calling black men with white women ugly and trashing mixed couples unless its you or your friends.
I live my life and i don’t need to bash black men in order to jusitfy my relationship like your buddies do.
But since you people are all right all the time and everybody else is wrong, i’ll just let you dictate other people’s relationships.
Your buddies are online all the time, talking about how racist white people are and how correct you all are about that and blah blah blah.
And you are right there with them complaining about whites then you turn around and try to make yourself and your friends sound innocent,
“oh we don’t hate anyone we just complain about how racist they are all the time.”
YOU and your buddies are white bashing. Everytime abagond writes an article its about how racist white people are and how bad they are and he is especially against white women.
But “he’s” not white bashing, because its someone that you like so you’re not going to label “him” but when someone else says the same thing then they are bashing right?
Boring, and you’re all a bunch of hypocrites.
Look in the mirror before you attack me or anyone else with your self-righteous beliefs.
Hi, I just followed your link from Abagonds site and began to read your blog. Going off your interaction above with this Erzulieredeyes individual you’re obviously a very cool individual which is not only surprising coming from anyone off the internet, but from someone so young. Then again, Abagond is a pretty cool customer and you’re a frequent visitor of his too, so maybe there’s hope after all. Just figured I would share that.
@Rolo
And I’m sure you’re a “proxxy” or sock puppet I don’t know you and you are not good enough to me in reality.
Whoever this “Abagond” person is, is only “cool” to people that follow his every word and the rest he makes enemies with.
I never blindly follow anyone, especially people that have no real argument except gang mentality and ad hominem, thank you
PARDON, I meant, you are not good enough to know me in reality.
Just throwing your garbage back to you.
I don’t follow strangers behind labels off the net, I usually like to think for myself.
That’s a problem for some people. LOL
Let Me Undersatnd This: Are You Are You Not From Zaire (Congo As I Am Used To Calling It )???
This Is Not An Attack I’m Just Surprised Becuase I’ve Never Met Some One Who Is The Slighest Bit Interested In My Country Of Orgin!! Not Even Me For That Matter!!
I Want To Know How You Pronounce Zaire Becuase When I Say In My Conoglese Accent Its Don’t Really Sound Like A Nice Name But Than Again Everyone Is Intialed To Their Own Opinuion
I Love Your Blog Its Pretty Call You Have A Straight And Opinuion On Things Is Good!!
Hope many there in Zaire will come to know God through repentance toward God for their sins against him and faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ who was God manifest in the flesh who came to die for all of our sins against God on the cross of Calvary, who also was buried, and rose from the dead the third day, was seen of men, and went back up to heaven. And this is found in the Authorized King James Holy Bible, the word of God. And the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. And is the only way to miss eternal hell fire and go to God our creators heaven. f b n r a d I o dot c o m.